Monday, July 27, 2009

有感而发。。

“我们在一起并不是因为互相了解。” 这句话让我思考了很久,一直困扰着我。

人就是因为不了解,所以才会被互相吸引,好奇地想要更加了解对方!!

可是当我们已经彻底地了解后,我们的感情还剩下什么呢?还有什么能够让我们继续对彼此感兴趣?

当时间久了,因为失去这种魅力和好奇心,才会觉得感情开始乏味,没新意。

感情变淡了,到最后就只有选择放手,结束了这段-“因不了解而开始,因了解而分开”的关系。

所以,在没有真正确定自己的心意和没有充分地了解对方之前,请不要因为一时的好奇和短暂的吸引力而让彼此受到伤害。

10 comments:

  1. i think she is refering to u elaine,u make her kek sam and sam tam d
    HAR!!

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  2. aiks................. is it leng??

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  3. yee kai, lei um hou hoi ngor ah...
    haha..i think u r the 1 feel kek sam n sam tam gua..Lol

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  4. yea...sam tam n kek sam aa..elaine hiew

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  5. no la..actually the post is for me la..

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  6. correct leng!!! Must understand first... but he is actually very ez to understand la... i hope he bukannya sembunyikan belang... hahaha

    Yeekai!!! y kek sam with me... coz i 因不了解而开始,因了解而分开 ??? lol
    den how?? u tell me...

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  7. No no no..never underestimate a guy, do not assume u can understand them well..some guys r more complicated than gal..

    Plus..bertepuk sebelah tangan won't work 1 la..haha

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  8. haiz......
    i hate guys... i hate them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  9. wui..don hate la...no use to hate also...chill..chill..

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