Tuesday, January 26, 2010

我的老爸。。

父母总会用自己的方式,默默地表达他们对我们的爱。以下都是我老爸一些令我感到窝心的举动。

每次回家(怡保),老爸都会问我够不够钱用,我都会跟他说够用,但他常常都会趁我不注意的时候,偷偷地把钱放进我地口袋,连我老妈也不知道。

我在家的每个星期日,老爸都会提早放工,为的就是要陪我吃晚餐后,然后目送我开车回槟城。他嘴里虽然没说出口,但我知道他是关心我的。

老爸从不主动打电话给我,但他每个星期都会唠叨我妈妈,为什么没打电话给我。硬要妈妈打电话问我这个星期有没有回家。曾经有一个星期五,我告诉他会迟一点,大概十一点才到家,他竟然赌气地说:“不用回来了,我又没有要你回来。我不会等你的门的。” 可爱的老爸却是刀子嘴,豆腐心。我到家后,还没来得及下车,他就已经开着灯,站在门口等我。

去年的新年,我给了RM200的红包孝敬他,可是他也包回同样数目的红包给我。老爸每天省吃俭用,省下来的钱自己都不舍得用,却每次都要给我买这个,买那个的。

我爸会不记得自己的生日或结婚纪念日,但他从不忘记我的生日,偏心到连我老妈也吃醋了。

老爸最重视的就是他的车,稍微弄肮脏或被猫刮花了,他都会骂上老半天。可是当我不小心撞了他的车,他只是看了车一眼,就没说什么了。老妈骂我的时候,他还会帮我说话,说人没事就好了。

老爸每个星期六都会吵着要出外用餐,他不是嘴馋,只是想要趁我有在家的时候,请我吃平时我不舍得花钱吃的东西。

我老爸对我的好,说几天几夜也说不完。

我知道在他心里,无论我活到几岁,我永远都是他的心肝宝贝。这样好的爸爸,要去那里找啊?我非常感恩,感谢天父用这默默的方式,把我安排到我父母身边,让我有用之不尽的爱。

其实每个人的爸爸都是一样的。只要我们细心一点去观察,去感受一下。就会发现自己其实很幸福。要懂得珍惜身边每一个人,尤其是最亲的家人。多回家,多打电话给他们,对他们来说就已经足够了。

6 comments:

  1. ur dad is great :)
    he will be proud if he read tis

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  2. i think every dad will do the same thing, jus in different way.. ^^

    hope he can really know that i appreciate what he did for me..too bad he don online.

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  3. yea,same here...chinese family most of the time quit conservative,sometime tis kind thing is quit hard/strange to show nor tell him directly..haha...lets
    hope ur dad will noe how great u appreciate him la,good luck

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  4. Yup..it is easy for us to hug or say "i love u" to our frens and bf/gf. but when it comes to our parent, the word like stuck inside our throat.even a simple "thank you" also hard to tell them.. :p

    hmm..should jus go home to hug our parent..just treat them better and try to spend more time with them la.

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  5. wah, gan dong dao wo cha dian zai ban gong shi liu lei... hahaha
    should show ler...
    teach u few tips of what i did,
    when he call, kacau him "u miss me so much?" if he says he doesn't, says "but i miss u wor"
    Go home, manja him, he feels that u still need him
    When leaving, give him a hug, says take care in his ear.
    When he do things for u and doesn't express, tell him: "i know u love me best!" then winks at him.
    hahahahaha ^^
    our parents are so cute!

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  6. haha..but my dad seldom call me wor..so method 1 can not use d lor.
    Manja or hug him ah? weird weird leh..haha.. tak biasa..

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